4 Tips to Become a More Financially Aware Mom


Disclaimer: I am not a financial professional. This post is meant to be informational only and is solely my perspective. Please speak to a trusted financial advisor regarding your situation.Taking notes on finances.

As a busy mom, paying the bills, remembering to give your kids lunch money, and paying for all of the extracurricular activities probably push financial planning to the bottom of your to-do list. However, being married to a financial advisor has opened my eyes to situations that all moms (and dads!) should be aware of. Below are four tips to help you on the path to becoming a more financially aware mom!

 1. Make A Will

One of the first questions my husband asks new clients is, “Do you have a will?” It is surprising how many parents do not have one. This is a scenario that no one wants to think about. However, if something tragic happens to you and your spouse, it is important to have a plan. Without a will, the state will decide what happens to your house, possessions, and even your children! Creating a will requires a little bit of time and a lawyer but ensures you have peace of mind.

2. Get Life Insurance

When you buy a house, you need homeowners insurance. When you own and operate a car, it is a legal requirement to have auto insurance. But surprisingly, it is not considered mandatory to have life insurance. Death is not a topic that we like to think about. However, accidents happen. If something happened to your spouse, would you be able to pay your mortgage or continue the lifestyle that you have?

My husband specializes in life insurance and has made sure that we both have life insurance policies. As a stay-at-home mom, I thought, why do I need life insurance? As my husband pointed out, he needs to work and bring home a paycheck. I take care of the kids, make sure they get to all their activities, do all the shopping, cleaning, and most of the cooking. We hate to think of something happening to me, but if I were gone, he would have to pay for childcare, a cleaning service, etc.

My daily jobs are costly to hire out. As the sole breadwinner, my husband’s life insurance policy is a lot larger than mine to ensure that I could pay the mortgage and take care of the kids. If you and your husband work, your employers may offer a group life insurance plan. This is a great start, but it may not be adequate to cover your needs. A general rule of thumb is that life insurance should be seven to ten times the insured’s annual salary.

3. Create A Retirement Plan

Whether you are a working mom or a stay-at-home mom, it is important to think about your future. Any good financial planner will tell you that it is more important to ensure that you have money for your retirement before you start paying for your child’s college education. Your children can take out student loans to pay for higher education, if necessary.

You could be living in poverty in your later years if you don’t plan well for your future. If you are working, take advantage of your employer’s retirement program, probably a 401k. When I was teaching, I had a 403b, which I contributed to. Despite all the work I do as a stay-at-home mom, I don’t benefit from an employer-sponsored retirement plan. However, even stay-at-home moms can save for retirement despite lacking personal income. You can open a spousal IRA, where the working spouse contributes to the account.

4. Start a 529/College Funds for the Kids 

Once you have a financial plan in place for your future, it is time to plan your child’s higher education. If you know that your child will be attending college, a 529 Plan is a popular route. A 529 Plan is an educational savings plan with many benefits, with the prime one being that the earnings on the account are not subject to federal or, in most cases, state taxes.

This is by no means a comprehensive or exhaustive list of topics to help you become financially aware. However, in my opinion, these are some of the most important starting points to get you thinking about your financial situation. Make financial planning a priority, and you will have peace of mind and become a  more educated, financially aware mom!

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Nancy loves exploring all that Westchester and the Hudson Valley has to offer, from locally-farmed produce to seasonal events. She grew up in Putnam County and currently lives in Northern Westchester with her husband and two children: a 10 year old daughter and an 8 year old son. Nancy's a former special educator who, several years ago, traded a career in teaching to be a stay at home mom. In her free time, she writes her own blog (NY Foodie Family), plays tennis and fills up the family scrapbooks with the constant addition of new memories.


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