6 Easy and Cost Effective Ways to Show Appreciation and Gratitude


Appreciation is defined as the recognition and enjoyment of the good qualities of someone or something. It’s one of those words that we tend to use on a daily basis. “Thank you so much! I appreciate it!” or “I appreciate everything you’re doing!” or “Much appreciated!” What about when you are looking to do a little extra in expressing gratitude – something beyond just saying the words?  But yet, still hoping to keep it simple in cost, energy and time commitment.

Whether it be a friend, colleague, family member, teacher or other professional, here are some simple ideas to celebrate someone’s good efforts.

Word Clouds

A word cloud (also known as a tag cloud or word cluster) is an image composed of words. Many of us have seen these used throughout our professional years for employee polling and visual representations, yet using them for personal reasons is a fun form of expression too.

Earlier this year, my colleagues presented this to me for my birthday. They were asked to submit a word or two about me and the word cloud was created. This simple gesture seriously tugged at my heartstrings! It really took the spotlight over the material gifts. And I can honesty say that my colleagues “know” me! It is something that I will always treasure. 

There are a bunch of free online word cloud generators, which are pretty easy to use, including:

Word Art    


Word Clouds

**Some have options to purchase more advanced options. 

These allow you to customize your “cloud” with different shapes, themes, colors and fonts. Input or upload your words and play around with the features. You can edit your word list, shape size, and word frequency. When you’re finished, save the image – you’ll see options to print, send or share.

So simple, but yet, it can be so meaningful! I sort of became obsessed with the idea and made a couple for my daughter’s 4th grade teacher as part of the class gift. One had the first names of all of the children in the class. The other was comprised of words that the students chose to describe their teacher and/or their 4th grade experience. My daughter also made a word cloud for her softball coach and for my husband for Father’s Day.

Bag of Goodies

Sometimes I like to head to a Dollar Tree to pick up a variety things to show appreciation. Choose from items like notebooks with cute sayings, adult coloring books/crayons, crossword puzzles, candy, chocolates, fuzzy socks, hair accessories, craft supplies, stationary, picture frames, pens/markers or even gardening accessories. Or buy them all! Everything is really $1. You can also find a nice gift bag to place everything in.


Another way to make your gratitude known is to make a donation to a favorite charity. Choose a cause that reflects the unique interest of the individual and donate in their name. Remember that it doesn’t need to be a large amount to make an impact.

Candy Bar Poem/Poster

It’s possible that I’ve been living under a rock, but in all my years, I had never seen a Candy Bar Poster until I was looking around Pinterest for a unique way to wish a happy retirement. A piece of oak-tag and some candy (see Dollar Tree reference above), along with a clever poem, rhyme or speech, and you have a completely personalized (and tasty!) creation. Adorable, witty and customized.

Old Fashioned Greeting Card

Most of us get our mail everyday and what do we find? Bills and ads. Bleh. Around birthdays and anniversaries, we’ll receive some cards. Around the holidays we’ll get a slew of cards, which I personally love, yet they are expected. But isn’t it cool when you stroll on over to the mail and notice an envelope that you didn’t anticipate?  

Sending a greeting card  “just because” is a considerate and deliberate action. Sometimes the language in the greeting card says exactly what you’re trying to – but consider including a handwritten message as well to make it even more personal and thoughtful. And remember – snail mail gets a bad rap! Many like to joke about the US Postal Service, but they will deliver a piece of mail for the mere price of a stamp. 50 cents to send a letter anywhere in the country! Oh, and did I mention the Dollar Tree has greeting cards too?

Magazine Subscription

Speaking of snail mail….think about a subject that interests the individual you’re hoping to do something for and send them a magazine subscription. Each week or month he/she will receive a little reminder of your gratitude and appreciation. Some subscriptions are pricier than others, but often you can find pretty good deals.  

You don’t have to put on a big show to declare appreciation.  These are just a few ideas that I have in my repertoire. Try them out and let me know what you think! I trust that there are many more to consider  – would love to hear what ideas you have too!

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Melissa Jacobowitz is a Bronx native who moved to Westchester County after she and her high school sweetheart got hitched in 1997. She and her husband live in Mount Kisco with their son Corey (b 2004) and daughter Mia (b 2007). Melissa spent many years working in Human Resources and currently works in enrollment and marketing for a child care organization. Melissa is a two-time survivor of Postpartum OCD. Melissa initially became interested in writing to raise awareness for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, but has discovered that writing is a newfound aspect of her life that she thoroughly enjoys. She was also a contributing writer with Suburban Misfit Mom and you can find her stories at http://suburbanmisfitmom.com/writer/melissa-jacobowitz/ Melissa is also a featured writer in the book “A Dark Secret,” which is a compilation of where 15 women share their stories of maternal mental illness from diagnosis to recovery. Melissa is excited to write with the Westchester County Mom team and hopes that you’ll enjoy her stories of the trials and tribulations of a born-n-raised city girl raising a teenagers growing up here in Westchester.