Whine Time Doesn’t Have to Mean Wine Time


A woman drinking a glass of wine.Whine time. You know that time of day, usually right around the time you need to start making dinner, and everyone starts complaining? Babies cry and fuss, toddlers poke and prod at you, big kids fight about screen time, and teenagers start snapping. It seems like just about everyone gets cranky. Even mommy! 

It’s become popular in our culture to turn that whine time into wine time for moms!

I mean, I’m guilty of it. For a long time, it was a routine for me to come home from work, make myself a four o’clock cup of coffee, and then pour a nice big glass of wine (or two!). Red, white, rose, I’ve poured them all! My daughter even started referring to it as “Mommy Juice.” 

Wine time seems innocent enough, but all those extra calories got me thinking. Do I really need that glass of wine? Luckily for me, the answer is no. I don’t need it. There are plenty of other ways to deal with stress and unwind after a long day. Here are a few new things I’ve been trying.

Ice Cream and/or Chocolate

I need some special treat to reward myself at the end of the day. But just like the wine, this can’t be a nightly indulgence. I’ve also found a few low-carb frozen fudge bars that satisfy my cravings for something sweet. 

Watch Meaningless TV

I love everything Bravo TV. What better way to turn off your mind than to watch a bunch of rich housewives argue over almost anything. From New York to Beverly Hills, there is enough drama to distract me from my real-life problems. And when I want to feel better about myself, I turn on Southern Charm or even the Jersey Shore Family Vacation on MTV. Popcorn time!

Lions Roar

When things get tough and I feel like I’m going to explode, I literally let it all out with a loud lion’s roar. This is meant to be a yoga pose; however, I’ve taken it to the next level, and I actually roar. The first time I tried this, I startled my children (and myself). It’s like an instant release of adrenaline that immediately calms me. 


I know meditation is always the first thing recommended to relieve stress, but I can’t do it. Trust me; I’ve tried. I cannot focus, and it physically hurts my brain to recenter my wandering thoughts. Instead, I’ve turned to audiobooks. I love to read, and I never have enough time, but I do have a long commute to work. Listening to audiobooks has helped me focus and tune everything else out except the intriguing story I’m listening to. 

No More Multitasking

I had to learn this one the hard way, but I cannot focus on more than one task at a time. The chaos begins when I come home from work and need to check my email, make dinner, put in a load of laundry, and pay attention to my kids. I am a much happier, calmer mama when I can focus my attention on one thing. Being present at the moment with my family needs to be my priority. Blocking off scheduled times for other tasks allows me to get through my to-do list much more efficiently.

Don’t get me wrong; I still pour a glass of wine now and then on a weeknight. It’s just something that I’ve decided doesn’t need to be a daily occurrence. Wine does not need to be the solution for whine time in my house. I now save my wine for weekends, date nights, book club, or a girls’ night out! But don’t ask me to drop that after-work coffee. That would push me over the edge!

How do you handle the stress of whine time?

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Michelle is the Owner and Editor of Fairfield County Mom and Westchester County Mom. She has spent her entire life in Fairfield County, growing up in Norwalk and now residing in Fairfield, CT. Michelle married her husband, Chris, in October of 2008. Before motherhood, she thought she was busy, but now life with her son Shane (March 2011), twins, Blake and Brynn (June 2013), Carl the French bulldog, and Hank the Lab; the meaning of hectic has been redefined! Michelle is also a working mom, teaching third grade at a local public school. When she’s not doing laundry, creating lesson plans, and picking up toys, Michelle enjoys standing along the sidelines cheering on her kids, lounging with a good book, eating dark chocolate, and sipping on some tequila.


  1. I love this! I’m currently trying to break the pattern of beer time. Make the switch to an occasional rather than nightly beer. I have replaced it with seltzer and in the winter have done tea.


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